As I sit down to share this profoundly personal chapter of our lives I’m reminded of the strength and resilience that define family. Although we are a blended family with our unique dynamics and shared experiences, the foundation of love and support remains unwavering.  After 20 years of marriage, I found myself single again and ready to tackle the world. When I remarried in 2022, three of our four collective children were already adults, leaving just one son still at home with us. So, as I reflect on this journey, let me set the stage: picture me, the stalwart rock for my two biological sons, navigating the tumultuous seas of single parenthood with what I aimed to be: determination and grace. Okay, okay, if I’m

As I write this, I’m overwhelmed by the memories of the past handful of months. It’s been a journey I never expected to embark on, yet I am sharing my story with you. On December 1st, 2023, my world turned upside down. That was the day I received the dreaded diagnosis: Invasive Lobular Carcinoma: Her 2 negative, estrogen and progestogen positive. Hearing those words they echoed in my mind, sending shockwaves through every fiber of my being. Cancer. The word that alone is heavy, laden with fear and uncertainty. But this journey didn’t start there. It began long before, with a family history of breast cancer guiding my path. Knowing the risks, I diligently underwent regular breast MRIs and mammograms since the age of 35